Posts in self-perception
Every Winner Was Once a Beginner

In a world that celebrates success stories and final achievements, it's easy to overlook the crucial journey that led to those victories. But here's a fundamental truth: every winner was once a beginner. At some point, they were standing at the starting line, unsure of their abilities, perhaps even struggling with self-doubt. The difference between those who succeed and those who don't is not raw talent but a belief in growth and the perseverance to develop their skills over time.

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SWOT Your Way to Success

Have you ever wondered what sets thriving businesses and organizations apart? Or how successful individuals navigate life's twists and turns with confidence?

What if you could unlock a method that not only identifies strengths and weaknesses but also illuminates opportunities and shields against threats?

The answer often lies in a strategic yet simple tool—the SWOT analysis.

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Replace "No" with "Not Yet"

I was eleven years old, and I was thoroughly embarrassed.

A week earlier, one of the counselors had asked me if I would share a Torah thought at an upcoming Shabbos (Sabbath) camp meal in front of hundreds of others.

I was a pretty confident kid, so I agreed.

And then I spent many minutes preparing.

When the time arrived, I stood up on the bench and started speaking.

Towards the end, my mind froze and I couldn't remember the next part.

Somehow, I got through it, but I crumbled inside from embarrassment.

Which resulted in me burying myself underneath the table afterwards in shame.

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You’re Better Than You Think: Tips to Overcome Imposter Syndrome at Work

Debbie has been lucky. Or so she thinks. How else can she explain her many successes and promotions at work? It certainly doesn’t have anything to her hard work and skill development, or the relationships that she’s carefully built over the years, does it?

Of course, it does. But you’d be shocked to learn how many Debbies are out there, ascribing their successes to good fortune and their failures to their self-perception of inadequacy. Each raise, promotion or accolade is accompanied by the dread that, one day, their cover will be blown, and everyone will find out that they’ve just been getting lucky time and again.

What Debbie and many others suffer from is an unhealthy dose of impostor syndrome. Impostor syndrome occurs when you believe your inner critic when it tells you that you’ve only succeeded due to luck, and not because of your talent or qualifications.

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