Success is a term we often associate with fame, wealth, or accolades. Yet, for many, even when outwardly successful, the feeling of being truly fulfilled remains elusive. Why do so many people feel unsuccessful, despite their accomplishments? And how can we redefine and reclaim a sense of success in our lives and work?
Read MoreA success-driven mindset is more than just a positive attitude—it’s a way of thinking that empowers you to overcome challenges, set ambitious goals, and take actionable steps toward achieving them. Without this mindset, many people find themselves stuck, lacking the confidence and perseverance to reach their full potential. They may shy away from challenges, give up when faced with setbacks, or remain stagnant due to fear of failure. These patterns can lead to frustration, diminished self-esteem, and a cycle of unrealized goals.
Read MoreIn a world that celebrates success stories and final achievements, it's easy to overlook the crucial journey that led to those victories. But here's a fundamental truth: every winner was once a beginner. At some point, they were standing at the starting line, unsure of their abilities, perhaps even struggling with self-doubt. The difference between those who succeed and those who don't is not raw talent but a belief in growth and the perseverance to develop their skills over time.
Read MoreCall reluctance is a common challenge that plagues many salespeople, from novices to seasoned professionals. It's the hesitation or fear that creeps in when it's time to pick up the phone and reach out to potential customers. This reluctance can significantly impact a salesperson's performance, career progression, and overall success in the field.
Read MoreOne of the local papers runs my coaching content weekly.
They use this caption for my "Coach's Corner" column.
I hadn't seen it before. And I love it.
Unlike other interventions, coaching is all about taking the ideas and magic already in a client's head and helping them unravel, organize and make sense of it, while setting aside the things that have been holding them back.
Standard client comments: "I know I need to ___ (take action) but can't because ___ (limiting belief.)"
Coaching empowers people to move forward and get things done.
Read MoreOne morning last week, I made myself my favorite breakfast – fruit-filled pancakes – before heading downstairs to my home office to get my day started.
Shortly before I finished, I used some of the batter to prepare a plain pancake for my teenage daughter (she doesn’t seem to feel that pancakes and fruit go together), and she decided to sit down to eat it. This is a girl that almost never eats breakfast, certainly not in the kitchen.
So, instead of making my way downstairs, I sat down right there in the kitchen and ate with her.
We chatted about breakfast, school, and other stuff.
It was short but pleasant and a great way for both if us to start our days.
Sometimes, in our rush to get to work and (officially) start our days, we jump in, power up and plow ahead, leaving our lives behind for the time being.
At least, that’s what usually happens to me.
Read MoreHow can we stay positive when the "weather" that surrounds us is bleak?
Here are some tips:
Find the positives ➕ - In every situation, there are positives and things to be grateful for. Despite the rain, the weather is quite warm. Actually, the warmest we're had in weeks. A down market offers opportunities to buy on the cheap. Reduced volume gives us time to think and strategize about how to grow when the trends reverse.
It's all pointing up ⬆️ - Starting tomorrow, the day will begin to lengthen. It will be a long climb, but it will happen. The rain will clear out as well. We can't predict when we've hit bottom in our personal lives, but past experiences tell us that better days are ahead.
These are the key things that I think if we focus on could really help us move the needle and get unstuck and get going.
Ignore, or, better yet, drive back your inner critic – Often, we can be our own worst enemies. We can do the work, but we talk ourselves into thinking that we can’t. When this happens, be willing to push back and engage in some positive self-talk. Examples include: (1) “You CAN do this! That’s why they promoted you.” (2) “You’ve been in situations like this before and have always come through.” (3) “Just ask someone who was in a similar situation how they handled it.”
Envision yourself breaking through – Ask yourself this: Suppose that overnight, while you are asleep, a miracle occurs and you are no longer stuck. Instead, you have achieved your goal and then some! When you wake up in the morning, everything is exactly how you want it. What do you notice is different? What is the first thing you see?
This past week, my son Chaim celebrated his 13th Hebrew birthday and became a bar mitzvah. My wife and I reveled in the moment that was shared by family and close friends.
Literally, the term bar mitzvah means “son of a mitzvah (commandment)” and is intended to convey that a young Jewish man who has come of age is now obligated in the fulfillment of divine commandments as an adult male. (The same holds true for young Jewish women when they reach the age of twelve.)
But this milestone is so much more than a simple transition from childhood to adulthood (the Torah offers no such concept as adolescence). In fact, it represents three very important transitions in a young person’s life that can serve as a lesson for us all.
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