Posts in mindset
Developing a Success-Driven Mindset: The Key to Unlocking Your Full Potential

A success-driven mindset is more than just a positive attitude—it’s a way of thinking that empowers you to overcome challenges, set ambitious goals, and take actionable steps toward achieving them. Without this mindset, many people find themselves stuck, lacking the confidence and perseverance to reach their full potential. They may shy away from challenges, give up when faced with setbacks, or remain stagnant due to fear of failure. These patterns can lead to frustration, diminished self-esteem, and a cycle of unrealized goals.

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The Power of Reframing: Turning "I Got To" into "I Get To"

Life is full of responsibilities, many of which can feel overwhelming at times. It’s easy to slip into a mindset where we view these responsibilities as burdens, things we "have to" do rather than things we "get to" do. However, this perspective can lead to stress, dissatisfaction, and a sense of being trapped by our obligations. But what if we could change our outlook with a simple shift in language? By reframing "I got to" into "I get to," we can transform how we see our daily tasks and, in doing so, cultivate a more positive and grateful mindset.

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Why Salespeople Experience Call Reluctance

Call reluctance is a common challenge that plagues many salespeople, from novices to seasoned professionals. It's the hesitation or fear that creeps in when it's time to pick up the phone and reach out to potential customers. This reluctance can significantly impact a salesperson's performance, career progression, and overall success in the field.

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Staying Calm and Enjoying Family Time During Pesach: 9 Tips for a Stress-Free Holiday

Pesach (Passover) is a time for family and larger than usual gatherings. However, the preparations and responsibilities that come with hosting or attending gatherings can often lead to stress and anxiety. From cleaning every nook and cranny of the house to planning and serving elaborate meals, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But fear not! With some mindfulness and planning, you can navigate through Pesach with ease, enjoying quality time with your loved ones without the stress.

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Think You’re Not Biased? Think Again!

Ever thought you were completely fair and unbiased? Well, think again!

Our minds play tricks on us without us even noticing.

We go about our lives believing we're totally impartial in our decisions.

But guess what? We're actually influenced by sneaky biases that shape how we think and act without us even realizing it.

It's like a secret power our brains have, steering us in ways we don't notice.

And here's the catch: believing we're totally unbiased is one of the biggest biases we have!

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It's time you hopped offer the treadmill

You keep doing more and earning more. Yet, you’re not any happier than before.

Ever wonder why? It’s because you’re on the hedonic treadmill.

The hedonic treadmill, also known as hedonic adaptation, refers to our tendency to return to a relatively stable level of happiness or satisfaction after experiencing positive or negative events or changes in our lives.

In other words, it's the concept that our happiness levels tend to revert to a baseline despite significant life events or changes.

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Tips to overcome call rejection

I'm currently listening to Jia Jiang's Rejection Proof.

It's a powerful story about how the author's personal fear of rejection and desire to please others created an unintentional international movement to help people overcome rejection and get more out of life and their careers.

Which is one of the areas that I will be focusing on in my upcoming webinar training, "
Overcoming Call Reluctance."

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Good, bad, or maybe?

10 years ago, I made one of the biggest mistakes of my life.

Or so I thought at the time.

I was still living in Atlanta but would be moving soon to NJ.

Even as I prepared to relocate with my family, I was unsure whether I'd stay in school leadership or move into coaching.

One of the positions I was pursuing was a part-time principal position.

Truth is, it really wasn't the best fit for me, and I knew it.

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If you want to fix your results, fix your mind!

We went to work on the "gremlin" and started the process of flipping the script.

“𝙄 𝙢𝙖𝙮 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙄 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙜𝙖𝙞𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚.”

“𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚𝙨 𝙢𝙚 𝙣𝙤 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚.”

“𝙄𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙣 𝙤𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙢𝙮 𝙛𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙪𝙧𝙚, 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙩. 𝘿𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙗𝙖𝙨𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙣 𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣.”

From there, we moved into the core objective of the session.

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